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jenkin7

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gmakerley
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jenkin7

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gmakerley
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jenkin7, you've hit the nail on the head there. a co-signer is equally liable as a borrower. even more important, if you feel it appropriate to enter the world of co-signatures, you'd better have an extraordinary knowledge of the person for whom you're signing. when i say i have seen a lady lose her home because she co-signed for her daughter, i speak truth. of course, she could have saved her home, but she was obstinate and felt it "wasn't fair" instead of trying to make the deal work and live up to her obligation.
it's unfortunate that your romance lasted only until the ink was dry on the mortgage documents. i am also convinced that novation is a thing of the past, but it's worth a shot. if you can somehow placate your former friend, perhaps she'll see the humane way to do things and agree to refinance so you can both then move on. remind her that she'll always be tied to you as long as that loan remains unpaid - if she's that sick of you, she'll agree to refinance then, we hope.
another tack you may wish to consider is to ask her if she'd be willing to provide documentation showing that she'd paid for at least the past 12 months (if and when you apply for a mortgage). you may find lenders willing to discount your obligation on that mortgage if you can document that you're not making the payments, that they are on time, and that she is actually making all of them.
don't give up - that's not going to benefit you either. _________________ George M. Akerley
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gmakerley
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gmakerley
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