Posted on: 15th Jul, 2009 07:46 am
i recently finalized my divorce in connecticut. my "ex" harbored all my personal items for over 4 years and on the day of the divorce gave me the key to the storage he had transferrred all too. the divorce now being final the only provision in paperwork is if i found things to be distroyed or missing i could come to arbitration. as things went he kept all my personal items of worth, and the things he did give me he kept wires for the electronics and things were broken. of course my complaining to attorneys has fallen on deaf ears. my daughters journals i wrote all the years growing up were also not there as well as my legal paperwork.
my question is this i live in indiana and since the divorce was done in a rush situation as he only cared to get his pension paper work signed and for got to secure the home with a quit claim deed they are now asking me to sign this paperwork and i want it known what he did to my things. can i forego signing this paperwork and what would happen if i ignore their plees in trying to get the document signed. i would like to ask that he give me the money for the destroyed items and then i would sign. can i do this? i am not in possession of divorce paperwork so i can not state at this moment how divorce reads for my equity in home and what circumstances surround this deed.
this divorce was handled at the midiation court date and things were done in a hurry and attorneys worked on computers with standard forms so we could go before a judge that day and be done. i believe the divoce paperwork with not be percise on issues more vague and to the point i would say.
my question is this i live in indiana and since the divorce was done in a rush situation as he only cared to get his pension paper work signed and for got to secure the home with a quit claim deed they are now asking me to sign this paperwork and i want it known what he did to my things. can i forego signing this paperwork and what would happen if i ignore their plees in trying to get the document signed. i would like to ask that he give me the money for the destroyed items and then i would sign. can i do this? i am not in possession of divorce paperwork so i can not state at this moment how divorce reads for my equity in home and what circumstances surround this deed.
this divorce was handled at the midiation court date and things were done in a hurry and attorneys worked on computers with standard forms so we could go before a judge that day and be done. i believe the divoce paperwork with not be percise on issues more vague and to the point i would say.
hi,
first of all it it very bad. the way your husband is behaving, you are very right that paper will be biased & in his favour. better you go through papers carefully & take help of attorney if required
first of all it it very bad. the way your husband is behaving, you are very right that paper will be biased & in his favour. better you go through papers carefully & take help of attorney if required