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schnitzelkopf

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Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:44 pm Post subject: HELP!! Ex left the country/military
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| I'm in desperate need of help. First let me say that I can't hire a legal aid/low cost lawyer. The only one for my county was hired by my ex in the divorce, so he can't help me now. I'm a German national and came to the states 7 years ago with my ex, who is on active duty in the Army. No,..they don't help me either because we are divorced. He dumped me here after 10 years of marriage with our 2 little boys. We got divorced in Nov. 2007 and he was awarded the house (deed and mortgage is in both of our names). The divorce decree states that he has to either refinance or sell to get my name off and pay half of my student loans with the proceeds. He has been court ordered twice since and listed it finally end of last year but it didn't sell. Now he is stationed back in Germany, he left without saying anything to anyone, not even our kids. I found out where he is at tho. So I called the mortgage company to see if he keeps up with the payments and they told me that he hasn't paid since Nov last year and that they foreclose in 2 months. I had no clue and since my name is still on all of it they get me too now. I can't understand how he can disobey 3 court orders, which were not only about the house, but also about a big lump sum he owed me, a vehicle, and some other things. And now he is out of reach, it seems like. The lawyer I had to hire for the divorce doesn't seem to be up on his feet, I did most of the research for him. I have no open bills with him but he still won't help me. I guess he doesn't know how to really handle it because of my ex being in the service. I don't know what to do anymore, I can't even get in the house and the mortgage company said that I can only get it awarded if I make all the outstanding payments. But why? My name should have been off that 6 months after the divorce. Is there anyone who can help me? |
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schnitzelkopf

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schnitzelkopf

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