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Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 6:26 am Post subject: lifetime estate
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| my fiance and his parents had been paying on their house together, all three names on the deed, it was supposed to be the last one surviving got the house. My fiances mom one day says she can sell the house and is going to. My fiance found out that at any time any of them could sell the house so he decided he wanted to buy the house himself and give them lifetime rights to guarantee them that they could live there the rest of their lives. He also paid off their bills for them. He gave them lifetime rights to the upstairs portion of the home (as he was living downstairs at the time ) to keep them from thinking they had the right to go downstairs. He also gave them use of two outside buildings and no use of his garage he built a couple years ago, nor of the barn, not knowing that he then had no right to go upstairs in his own home. His mom left his dad almost 2yrs ago. She tried to come back around Christmas time. My fiance was upstairs and she told him to get out of her house. he said it was his house so she called the cops on him. They came and asked her why she came back for, when neither her husband nor son wants her there. Anyway the dad gave my fiance written permission to go upstairs, on the deed the parents are supposed to pay fire insurance, taxes, part of utilities and the mom hasn't paid anything. My fiance just got a paper in the mail from her yesterday saying basiclly shes coming back and there's nothing he can do about it and if he tries she's gonna take him to court, he's not to go upstairs, he has no use of the yard, cannot make her fix things that need to be fixed upstairs,etc. We're talking about HIS house that he is struggling each month to pay for. what a mess!!!!! So think long and hard before you give your parents lifetime rights, make sure you know exactly what it means. there are so many loop holes. My fiance is suffering and is under great stress due to this decision. He was trying to do the right thing by his parents plus secure his future (in his mom not being able to sell the house) and look where it got him. Lots of grief and heartache from his own mother. Let this be a lesson. |
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