Reaffirming after Bankruptcy

I filed for bankruptcy in 2005 (I tried not to for four years) due to a year's layoff and medical expenses. I told my attorney I wanted to reaffirm my mobile home and my car as the car was nearly paid off. So all is good. My bankruptcy was discharged one month later and I got a call from my credit union asking how I wanted to relinquish my car. Totally shocked (I had continued my pmts.) I called my attorney and he said I didn't have to reaffirm either loan even after he told me he would take care of it in court! I have tried contacting my lender on the house by phone and letter but they don't respond -- the car is paid now paid off.

Whew...does anybody have any advice as to how to get my housing lender to recognize my payments as earnest and I won't flake out on them? I've done my due diligence the only way I know how.

Thanks. Oh, and I don't need to be beaten up over the bankruptcy please, I've done that every day to myself.

Thanks for all your help.